You know, I was never that girl who fantasized about marriage or kids. My dreams revolved around career achievements and traveling the world. While my friends were busy picking out baby names, I was planning my first trip abroad or imagining what I would say if I ever met the President.
But life has a way of throwing curveballs. In my early twenties, I found out I was pregnant—something I hadn’t planned for at all. And with that surprise came relentless morning sickness. I felt nauseous from dawn till dusk, trying every remedy I could find, yet nothing worked. I became a recluse, and just as I thought the misery would never end, it finally subsided a month before my daughter arrived. It was a fleeting moment of joy, akin to being Snow White surrounded by woodland creatures.
Fast forward ten years, I was over the moon to be expecting my second child. I really thought things would be different this time. I was determined to stay positive and healthy. But oh, how wrong I was! The sickness hit me even harder than before. I couldn’t stray far from a bathroom, and I even carried laundry sheets and lavender sachets in my pockets to combat the overwhelming smells in public. Just seeing fast food ads made me feel nauseous. It was tough on me, but even tougher on my daughter and partner.
Honestly, I really disliked being pregnant. Society tends to glorify pregnancy, painting it as the happiest time of your life. And while that may be true for some women, for others like me, it feels completely different. I know some women who breeze through their pregnancies, gaining little weight and feeling energetic and glowing. To them, I say: I admire and envy you!
I absolutely adore my kids, but I’m so grateful that I won’t be going through pregnancy again. It just wasn’t my cup of tea. If you’re a mom who faced similar struggles, just know you’re not alone.
Did you find your pregnancy enjoyable, or was it a bit of a challenge for you too?
For more insights on pregnancy experiences, check out this piece on Modern Family Blog. If you’re considering home insemination, Make A Mom offers top-notch at-home insemination kits. For further information on pregnancy and assisted reproductive technology, the CDC’s resource page is a great place to start.
In summary, pregnancy can be a mixed bag of experiences. While some women thrive, others struggle through it. It’s important to share our stories and support one another.
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